After I listened to Katia Gordeeva's TSL interview, I thought of creating a space where we can assemble what various skaters have shared on the subject. I'll start with quotes from two of Ashley Wagner's new blog entries. The links will take you to the whole thing, each is maybe 600-800 words. (the bolding is mine).
After my competitive career slowed down, and I wasn’t training every single day, I had the opportunity to get to know myself and what I was really like beyond the confines of my regimen and schedule. Spoiler alert: I discovered that I am lazy AF. Of course, coming off of more than two decades of rigorous work with little to no vacation time might explain a lot about the lack of motivation that I was feeling. Either way, the world kept spinning and I found myself in a position where I had to move forward, with no idea how to do that. I had to learn how to become a self-starter at the age of 27. Let me tell you, having to move forward with no idea how to do that is TERRIFYING. So, long story short, thank god you are here.
https://www.theashwagner.com/blog/2018/11/8/my-5-tips-for-becoming-a-self-starter
https://www.theashwagner.com/blog/2018/11/8/my-5-tips-for-becoming-a-self-starter
I organized this entire move and it was so empowering. I moved not for work, not for a relationship, I moved just because I could and that made me feel so free, and like I was actually living life. I acknowledged that I needed change and I made it happen, and I got to experience the positive change that I started myself. Sometimes I feel like we get caught up in thinking about how difficult things can be, and yes, this move was ridiculously hard and stressful. It challenged me, but I learned that I can make things happen on my own, I don’t need anyone else to fix my problems. I don’t need to be rescued, I can save myself.
https://www.theashwagner.com/blog/2018/11/20/moving-across-the-country-why-i-did-itnbsp
https://www.theashwagner.com/blog/2018/11/20/moving-across-the-country-why-i-did-itnbsp