What an awful story, or honestly real life experience. I know from my own experiences from when I was about 15 how these things happen. No matter that he left when she said 'no' (and that is the only good part of this), but that he even tried this, is so disgusting. I'm 53 now, but I still recall the experience of staying with 'friends' and being woken up because one of them was f........g me. I never talked about it (after all, I was staying at a place I shouldn't have).
Does it matter at all that she had been drinking albeit being under age? Not at all. Any girl being at a party would get a drink. Come on, we're talking about a 17 year old. A girl who wants to take part in a party with all the others. I've been one of those (probably despiccable) people who until now thought the whole John Coughlin thing was more a question of perception than true abuse, though I definitely believed his former partner when she spoke up. However, a woman like Ashley who opens up and tells her story - including the perhaps less favourable parts to herself - makes me change my mind. A lot. I know how it feels, how wrong but you're still blaming yourself for staying there in the first place.
Sorry everybody, I realise I'm being too emotional and personal. It's just that I'm so proud of Ashley for speaking out. I never did out of fear for the negative consquences for me. She's a hero!
Does it matter at all that she had been drinking albeit being under age? Not at all. Any girl being at a party would get a drink. Come on, we're talking about a 17 year old. A girl who wants to take part in a party with all the others. I've been one of those (probably despiccable) people who until now thought the whole John Coughlin thing was more a question of perception than true abuse, though I definitely believed his former partner when she spoke up. However, a woman like Ashley who opens up and tells her story - including the perhaps less favourable parts to herself - makes me change my mind. A lot. I know how it feels, how wrong but you're still blaming yourself for staying there in the first place.
Sorry everybody, I realise I'm being too emotional and personal. It's just that I'm so proud of Ashley for speaking out. I never did out of fear for the negative consquences for me. She's a hero!