If we are worried about safety, then a lot of sports are problematic. Downhill skiing for instance, just to name one. This is why it is important for parents of young skaters to be informed about what is good and bad practice. That way, they can accompany their children in long term athletic development. That's why I shared the link to that document. What matters most is that the concerned individuals are aware and happy. It is so easy for fans to make judgements about circumstances we know nothing about. I am all about limiting the age gaps. That was my first post in this thread. At the same time, if the only male partner available in a specific area is 4 or 5 years older, should we deny a young girl access to her sport? So what matters to me the most at this point is changing some of the culture within forming partnerships when there are options available and making sure that parents are aware of progressive development with long term goals. It then remains to them to monitor the well being of their children.