I see it more as someone who listens to his own needs....
but I see it more as someone who listens to his own needs....
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he just didn't want to deal with this... many people make decisions like this in life... whether it is breaking up... leaving a job, moving cities, changing their lives, quitting a job etc.... but they don't have to make them publicly.... i think people should reserve their judgments for themselves.... the passion was no longer there, he quit... that's all there is to it.
really?
people retire from the sport all the time... so every single hockey/football player who has had enough with the sport and its injuries/training regiments etc.... should ask coaches and teammates before retiring?
when lubov joined him, she knew that this partnership might not gel or go anywhere... she also knew that it was at the most for 2-3 years depending on their olympic trajectory.... they did 1 year, he tried his best, he didn't feel it... that's all there is to know.
I am convinced that though the pain is deep now, she will remember her time in Montreal fondly.
Charlie did the best he could do
The problem is he TOLD Lubov he was quitting, he didn't DISCUSS quitting with her. Of course she felt stabbed in the back!
Sorry but i have dumped many bfs without their consent and vice versa. Lol. When it is no longer there, there are no explanations possible other than i am done. I am purposely comparing it to a relationship because many users are. The dude no longer wanta to skate. Not even shows. With their lifts and presence theybcould have been stars in show world. But he is no longer into skating. This is a hige deal tonrealize for soneone who skated all his life. He does not need to get her consent to stop skating. He was done.
Yes, but did he have to plan ahead with the media and release what some have called a diary entry through Radio-Canada (French national broadcaster), versus announcing it on his own social media, fewer than 24 hours after informing her? His reasons have been mostly agreed upon as valid, but it's majoritarily on the delivery that people have taken (and continue to take) offence. As seeing as Charlie himself chose to go the media route, that criticism is fair.
Sorry but i have dumped many bfs without their consent and vice versa. Lol. When it is no longer there, there are no explanations possible other than i am done. I am purposely comparing it to a relationship because many users are. The dude no longer wants to skate. Not even shows. With their lifts and presence they could have been stars in show world. But he is no longer into skating. This is a huge deal to realize for someone who skated all his life. He does not need to get her consent to stop skating. He was done.
[B said:4everchan;2597314]Sorry but i have dumped many bfs without their consent and vice versa[/B]. Lol. When it is no longer there, there are no explanations possible other than i am done. I am purposely comparing it to a relationship because many users are. The dude no longer wants to skate. Not even shows. With their lifts and presence they could have been stars in show world. But he is no longer into skating. This is a huge deal to realize for someone who skated all his life. He does not need to get her consent to stop skating. He was done.
Well, I doubt they had to read about it in the press to find out they were single. BTW, how did your partners react when you "Dumped" them. Trust me, if I had been dumped by my BF and found out at the same as the rest of my family and friends, I would have been devastated. We are now PAGES into this incident and you can see by the comments that this issue is huge. Athletes train their entire careers for the chance to make it to the Olympics and he derailed, if not completely ended her chance to make her dream come true.