But some songs truly are off limits. Some poor Japanese junior had "Strange Fruit" as one of her pieces of music, not knowing its history I am sure. She eventually replaced it, I think with Sinnerman. That is an egregious example, but they exist. We do need to have limits.
The same thing with that horrid "aboriginal" dance. Other cultures can be approached respectfully, as Meryl and Charlie did with Bollywood. As anyone with an ounce of common sense or the politeness their mama raised them with would do.
Playing devil's advocate here. We don't share the same sensitivities here, but I do respect your opinion...
Which songs exactly should be off limits? Who decides? What might be deemed controversial by modern Western standards might not be viewed so by other cultures. So, in the case of Strange Fruits, would you consider that a case of enforcing modern American/Western cultural norms on a culturally different athlete? Is cultural enforcement better or worse than cultural appropriation?
For the record, I wasn't saddened when that program was dropped. I just don't think it would be good skating music for anyone, no matter their background... but I wouldn't have denounced it if she had used it. I just wouldn't have liked it. You might have been OK had this music been chosen by an African-American skater (I don't know this, I'm just surmising), but I would have still thought it sucked, because my objections would not have been racially/culturally based.
Likewise, I didn't like the aboriginal program, and particularly the original costumes. That was just cartoonish, and not in a charming way. Again, I wouldn't have banned it (if I could). I just didn't like it, and I moved on.