whole post.
The stereotyping and generalizations in this post are too sweeping for me to answer, so I won't.
I will say that I do not base my opinions on my own life experience (with which I could match anyone, and I mean anyone, with responsibility, maturity, etc. expected of a child. So what? The fact that it was expected of me or that I lived it doesn't mean it was ideal. Or is a good idea now).
The point isn't what I would have wanted or I could have done, but what is best in general. But I don't think we will convince each other, so I will leave off now.