I, too, found the schadenfreud over H/D's downgraded spin rather disgusting.
In general, I think some fans get WAY too invested both in "loving" their favorites and "hating" their lesser liked skaters.
These people aren't family so they don't rate my undying affection or loyalty, and none of them have done anything to deserve my personal wrath or disdain.
On a side note: I appreciate H/D's response to events, and as you've noted, the tech panel may have dinged them, but the judges still obviously love them.